|Posted on March 27, 2013 at 8:35 AM|
I know everyone has an opinion and are entitled to having one. But please take note that everyone is not always going to be concerned with or care about your feelings. Especially in the case when it’s something that doesn’t directly involve you. Most might tell you to mind your business, as to where some may listen and even agree but I’m almost positive it goes in one ear and out the other. My thought is always if your suggestion is not to help or better the situation, by all means please keep it to yourself. If it is something I’m going through I’ve already thought about it a hundred times and have tried to weigh the pros and cons so you coming with your negative input definitely don’t help the situation. Just let it play out however it’s supposed to and if there is a lesson to be learned, let it be and then let’s move forward. I’ve also learned over the years and the hard way, that everyone does not have your best interest at heart. Even though I am very considerate to most in every situation others are not and that’s fine it has helped me along the way to be a better judge of character. It allows me to see what’s on the surface and not to expect anything more than what I see and in due time true colors will show. A lot of people function by living through other people or suggesting that others do things that they actually wouldn’t do but makes it sound good as if they would do it the same or slightly altered. “Honesty is the best policy” is the motto I’ve always gone by with some things being on a need to know basis is becoming almost everything needs to be that way because there is always someone posing to be concerned but are only seeking information that in most cases is only beneficial to themselves. Every man for himself is cool too but that’s not how I roll. Life changes are necessary to move on and better yourself I only ask that the lessons that are being taught, you take heed to and apply them to your life and daily situations in the areas needed. But always go with your gut feeling,9 times out of 10 it won’t steer you wrong.