|Posted on April 17, 2013 at 12:55 AM|
So I’ve been trying to figure out if and when somebody will realize that when you burn bridges and then turn around and ask that same person for a favor, they aren’t entitled to help you. When people do others wrong it’s usually the person that’s been done wrong that is needed again. I’ve always said” You will need me before I need you.” And most times that’s the truth. You can’t mistreat someone or misuse them or their resources and think that everything will be ok and that if you do it time after time that it will continually be accepted. It’s hard when you’re a helpful person and people start to take advantage of that and it’s unfair that it makes you not want to do for others. In that case even those that are deserving of you and your time and energy may never get to experience your generosity. People need to learn and understand that this world does not and will not revolve around only you and your problems and maybe just maybe other people experience hard times and tribulations as well. Why is it okay for you to treat others one way but if they tried to do you the same all hell breaks loose? Do you know that karma is real and that the way you treat others it can and will come back to you double maybe even triple time? Does it matter to you, do you even care? Is it fair when somebody does something for you and asks for a favor in return you act like the world is coming to an end? I honestly don’t think it’s possible for someone to be the victim all the time and becomes annoying when even when you’re not you still play the role. If you make better decisions and life choices the chances are you will probably have a better life. It wouldn’t hurt to do right by people especially when you always have your hand out on the other side. If you can come to a mutual agreement or understanding burned bridges may be rebuilt but can also stay as ashes and rubble. Everyone can feel how they do but please don’t be upset when you mistreat, abuse, misuse, take advantage of or not appreciate someone and they do the same to you…..